"Absenteeism Group" is the only child of the family that is mourned for childbirth

According to Voice of China's "Yangguang News," there are two special days between May and June each year. They are "Mother's Day" on the second Sunday in May and the third Sunday in June. "Father's Day". For most people, this is the day of two grateful parents and affection, but there is a group of people who are alone and sad at this time. They are the parents who have lost one-child children after a long time and they have a common call.” Absence of independence." The pain of their bereavement can hardly be smoothed. There is no guarantee of old-age support in old age. Today, there are already millions of families who lack independence and need more and more support from the government. They need the attention of the society.

After receiving a phone call from a reporter, Dalian, who has been 60 years old, has become an independent mother. She is nicknamed “The Longing for Sincerity” and the lady is unusually calm. She is the founder and manager of Dalian’s group. Interviewed and introduced the general situation of the lack of one-child children.

Aspiration for sincerity: now the family is basically in these situations, one is sick leukemia, lupus erythematosus, my son is a heart attack, there are many accidents, car accidents, there is a murder, there is a situation Depression suicide.

A lonely family, that is, a family whose only child is dead, has passed 50 years of age. The group of people who lose their fertility has attracted more attention. Yearning for sincerity Last year, Dalian established a "quiet heart" for her lack of independence. During the entire conversation, she had a strong voice, but she choked up from time to time.

Longing for sincerity: I never cry before others, but when I go home, my family has a big photo. When I go every day, I say my mother is gone. When I come back, I first look at my son and I say that my mother is back. Really. Realizing that he is gone, can he not be uncomfortable?

The unexpected accident did not kill the strong mother. She visited the spontaneous organization of the disqualified groups in Wuhan and Shanghai, and from September 2009 to the end of last year, after several hard-working efforts, she eventually took the Dalian out-of-trust family. When they got together, they warmed together. In the dead of night, after comforting others, she still wanted to see the departing child when she was dreaming at midnight.

Longing for sincerity: Everyone is looking forward to dreaming about children. Many children and children will not dream of children after they have gone for two or three years. I dreamed about the night before. I was particularly uncomfortable thinking about this dream. Later, I thought, my son still hopes I'm happy.

The Shandong lonely proprietor named “Si Bin” told reporters that after he lost his child four years ago, he would no longer like to communicate with outsiders. The old couple closed themselves up and mourned alone.

Si Bin: In the past, I had a very cheerful personality. Now I don't want to socialize. People have told me that I have lost children as a story. They have no children at home, and they have no friends at home. When we all went out for dinner, we went out. We didn't cook. When we cooked, we staggered and didn't want to meet people. We didn't want to mention it.

Moving is the common choice of most of the families who have lost their independence. They have walked out of their children’s lives and have gone out of their own sadness. These families that are already incomplete have not been able to escape a series of old-age crisis and survival risks. Can they use other methods? What are the problems of solving the family of independence? Some people think of adopting a child again, but the missing mother “aspires to sincerely” tells reporters that adopting this road is not so smooth.

Aspire for sincerity: Adopt a child. When our children are gone, they are in their fifties. The pain of a child is lost. No child can replace it. We have adopted children in this group, and sometimes we want to feel very unfair to adoptive children. There is no energy, energy or financial resources at all. You are not responsible for yourself and you are not responsible for your children.

In the eyes of ordinary people, test-tube babies can not only inherit the blood of their parents, but also fill their empty life when they are young, but living examples have shattered the desire of many parents to give birth to another child.

Longing for sincerity: IVF, many people now do their best and try hard. Many people end up with failure and spend tens of thousands with success. For example, in the 50s, when you re-mother, when you are 65 years old, you are not good enough. It's not easy to serve a child. I really don't want to be in my fifties and still desperate to have children.

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